- Author: D Unknown
- Posted: November 10, 2015
- Category: D Unknown Magazine
Being Dishonest About Ugliness
ADULTS often tangle themselves in knots when discussing physical appearance with children. We try to iron out differences by insisting they donât matter, attribute a greater moral fortitude to the plain or leap in defensively when someone is described as not conventionally attractive, or â worse â ugly or fat. After all, there are better, kinder words to use, or other characteristics to focus on.The Australian author Robert Hoge, who describes himself as âthe ugliest person youâve never met,â thinks we get it all wrong when we tell children looks donât matter: âThey know perfectly well they do.â